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Just had a baby? Just closed on a house? Those are the two moments most people start asking, "How much life insurance do I need?" It's a good question, and the answer is simpler than most people think.

This guide is for young families in St. Louis and across Missouri who want to make sure the people they love are taken care of. No jargon and no pressure. Just a straight answer, a quick way to find your number, and what it actually costs.

Only about half of American adults own any life insurance at all. The biggest reason people give for skipping it is cost, but most people guess way too high. In a national survey, about three out of four adults overestimated what a policy costs, and young, healthy adults guessed 7 to 12 times the real price.

Another common gap: relying only on life insurance through work. Employer coverage is often just one or two times your salary, and it usually ends when you leave the job. For a family with a mortgage and kids, that rarely goes far enough.

A quick rule of thumb is 10 to 12 times your yearly income. But if you want a number that fits your actual life, the DIME method is a simple way to add it up:

D is for Debt. Add up car loans, credit cards, and student loans.

I is for Income. Multiply your yearly income by the number of years your family would need it. Ten years is a common starting point.

M is for Mortgage. Include what's left on your home loan so your family can stay in the house.

E is for Education. Set aside what you'd want for your kids' college or trade school.

Here's an example. A 32-year-old parent earning $60,000, with two kids and a new home, adds up to about $935,000. That points to roughly a $1 million policy. Subtract any coverage you already have through work and any savings your family could use, and you have your number.

Less than most people expect, especially when you're young and healthy. Here are average monthly prices for a $500,000, 20-year term policy for nonsmokers in average health:

The big takeaway: price goes up with age. A 30-year-old pays a fraction of what a 50-year-old pays for the same coverage, and once you lock in a term policy, your rate stays the same for the whole term. Waiting a few years costs you every month for the next 20.

These are averages. Your actual price depends on your health, your habits, and the insurance company's underwriting. That's why comparing a few carriers matters.

Term life covers you for a set number of years, usually 10, 20, or 30. It's the most affordable way to get a big amount of coverage, which is why it's the go-to for young families. Pick a term that lasts until your kids are grown or your mortgage is paid off.

Whole life covers you for your entire life and builds cash value over time, but it costs a lot more each month. It can make sense for final expenses, estate planning, or lifelong needs.

Some families use both: a large term policy to protect the family during the busy years, plus a smaller permanent policy for the long run.

Step 1: Run the DIME method on your own numbers.

Step 2: Check what coverage you already have through work, and whether it ends if you leave.

Step 3: Pick a term length that covers your mortgage or your kids' growing-up years.

Step 4: Get quotes from more than one company. Prices for the same coverage can vary a lot.

Step 5: Apply while you're young and healthy. Your rate is based on your age and health when you apply.

I'm Darren, an independent life and health insurance broker here in St. Louis. I work with multiple insurance companies, so I can shop your coverage instead of selling you one company's policy.

I'll help you figure out your number, compare a few options side by side, and answer any questions. No pressure, and no obligation.

Fill out the quote form on this page or call or text me at (314) 455-7919. I'm licensed in Missouri, Ohio, and Michigan.

A common rule of thumb is 10 to 12 times your yearly income. For a more accurate number, add up your debt, income replacement, mortgage, and education costs using the DIME method.

For a healthy 30-year-old, a $500,000, 20-year term policy averages roughly $32 to $38 a month. Prices rise with age and depend on your health.

Usually not for families. Work coverage is often one or two times your salary and typically ends when you leave the job.

Most young families start with term life because it gives the most coverage for the lowest price. Whole life can make sense for lifelong needs like final expenses.

Yes. Childcare, cooking, and running the household cost real money to replace. Many families get coverage for both parents.

No. Brokers are paid by the insurance company, so you pay the same price, and you get help comparing multiple companies.

Sources: Life Happens and LIMRA Insurance Barometer; MoneyGeek term life rates by age